Top 10 Reasons Why Women Don't Know They Are Pregnant

We've all heard stories about women who didn't know they were carrying a child until very late in the pregnancy...or even until labor kicks in. But how could this be? Besides the obvious reason (denial!), there are a number of factors that can contribute to the "surprise pregnancy" phenomenon:

10. Fetus is small, inactive, and/or carried toward the back of the womb.
Believe it or not, sometimes babies just don't make a lot of commotion in utero. In addition, some women's babies rest naturally toward the back of the womb, so that motion and kicking aren't easily detected from outside the mother's body. Many women believe that fetal movements are just irregular or strong digestive activity!

9. Recent previous childbirth.
Many women continue to believe that they cannot get pregnant right after giving birth, or while they are breastfeeding. Additionally, menstrual cycles can be irregular, and women can continue to bleed vaginally for several weeks after childbirth. The truth is, some women ovulate - and can become pregnant - within the very first days after giving birth!

8. Dieting.
Women who are very active and watch their weight religiously may crank up their fitness routine and/or begin dieting when they notice a weight gain. Because of this, they may not gain weight as their pregnancy progresses.

7. Stress.
Stressful jobs, family, and personal lives contribute to irregular periods, and may cause women not to pay attention to their menstrual cycle, or to chalk up missing periods to stress.

6. Fetus is mistaken for a tumor or cyst.
In some cases, particularly when a woman has a history of endometriosis, fibroid cysts, or other tumors of the reproductive system, a fetus can be mistaken for a new or recurring tumor.

5. Obesity.
Carrying a lot of excess weight can perfectly disguise the "baby bump." Depending on how a woman's body deposits fat, she may have looked "a little bit pregnant" in the past, and neither she nor others notice the extra bulk of a fetus.

4. Inaccurate use of birth control.
Many women are certain they could not be pregnant because they use birth control. However, all birth control methods have a failure rate, and the chance of pregnancy goes up exponentially if birth control methods are not used exactly as indicated: missing pills, expired condoms, and similar problems can result in surprise pregnancies in women who are sure they are in the clear.

3. Breakthrough bleeding.
Some women continue to have period-like bleeding throughout their pregnancy; it may be lighter or irregular, or even coincide with a woman's usual "time of the month." These pseudo-periods can be enough to convince a woman that she's not pregnant.

2. Negative home pregnancy test.
Home pregnancy tests aren't fool-proof. Whether taken or read incorrectly, or simply giving a false reading, once a woman has tested negative for pregnancy at home, she may simply rule it out.

1. History of irregular cycles and/or infertility.
Not being able to get pregnant in the past, a history of missing or irregular periods, and/or being close to menopause can all fool a woman into thinking she couldn't be pregnant. The truth is, unless a method of birth control is used every time a woman has sex, she can get pregnant!

Source: Top 10 Reasons Why Women Don't Know They Are Pregnant

Second cycle and no usual AF signs yet

Well.. its my cycle day 40.

Symptoms experienced: lower abs, buttocks and tailbone discomfort, bloated

I am a week delayed by this time. I am worried because I do not know what is really my status at this point. Having a negative urine test on CD 37, I do not know where or what should I do next. I do not want to undergo Beta Hcg test as I dont want to make my hopes up again. I am really confused. I am silly I know. I just want to get my cycle back on track.


I have been taking Duphaston for a week now. It says it really helps to induce menstruation if you are not pregnant and regulate the healthy growth and normal shedding of the uterus lining if you are pregnant. I do not know what to think. Many times that my mind plays tricks on me.

I just want to summarize the weird symptoms I experience on this cycle:

LMP: September 12, 2010
Days Cycle: 35-37 ( I don't do charting so I dont know when was I ovulated)
Hubby and I made love: September 25 and 27.
First bleeding: September 30 and October 1 (CD 19 and 20)
Second bleeding (spotting): October 12 (CD 30)
Urine testing date: October 7, 15, 17 (all negative)

Symptoms:
Fatigue, Spinal pain (back ache), chest pain, bloated, constipated, burping, sore throat

Doctors advice: take folic acid, exercise,lose weight :))

Next move (?): Take urine test on October 25 (Hubby's birthday!)

And after that, whatever the result is... get Beta Hcg test (blood test).